Why Am I Getting Friend Requests From People Already on My List?
If you've gotten a Facebook friend request from someone who's already in your friends list, you didn't accidentally unfriend them — their account was cloned by a scammer. This is the most common scam targeting seniors on Facebook. Here's how to spot it, report it, and protect everyone.
Getting a friend request from someone already on your friends list is a 'cloned account' scam. A scammer copied your real friend's photo and name to make a fake profile, then sent you a request hoping you'll accept and trust their next message. Don't accept and don't delete the request. Click on the fake profile, click the three dots, click 'Find support or report profile', and pick 'Pretending to be someone'. Then tell your real friend so they can warn others. Never click links or send money in response to messages from a 'friend' you just re-added.
Step-by-step practice mode
Click through each step to practice. The screens look like the real Facebook app — but nothing here changes anything in your real account or device.
Step 1 — Don't accept yet, examine the profile
Click their name to view the fake profile
Click the name to inspect
Step-by-step instructions
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Pause — don't accept and don't delete the request yet
If a friend request comes from someone who looks like a current friend, take a breath. The scam works by getting you to accept first and ask questions later. We're going to verify before doing either.
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Click on the requester's name to view their profile
Don't click 'Confirm' yet. Click the person's name (in the friend request) to open their profile. You're going to look for clues that it's fake.
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Check the 'Joined Facebook' date
Click 'About' or 'Intro' on their profile. Look for when they joined Facebook. A real long-time friend has been on Facebook for years. A fake clone usually shows 'Joined recently' (last few weeks).
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Look at how many posts they have
Real accounts have years of posts, photos, and check-ins. Fake clones have just the profile photo and maybe 1-2 posts. If their timeline is empty, it's a clone.
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Search for your real friend by name
In Facebook's search bar at the top, type your real friend's name. You should still see the original real account in your friends list. If both the real one AND the new request show up, you have a clone — the request is fake.
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Click the three dots on the fake profile and pick 'Find support or report profile'
On the fake profile page, click the three horizontal dots next to the message button. Click 'Find support or report profile'. When asked the reason, pick 'Pretending to be someone' → 'Me' or 'A friend' depending on whose photo they stole.
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Block the fake account
After reporting, click the three dots again and pick 'Block'. This stops the fake account from seeing or contacting you. Confirm by clicking 'Block' on the warning popup.
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Tell your real friend by phone or text
Call or text your real friend OUTSIDE Facebook (don't message them on Facebook in case THEIR account is also compromised). Tell them their profile was cloned so they can warn other friends.
⚠ Important: Never call any phone number you find in a Facebook message claiming to be 'Facebook security'. Meta has no phone support — those are all scams.
What if it's not working?
Problem: I already accepted the fake friend request before realizing
Likely cause: The scam works by getting you to accept first.
How to fix: Go to the fake account's profile, click 'Friends' button, then 'Unfriend'. Then click the three dots and 'Block'. If you sent them any photos or messages, they have copies — but they can't see future activity. If they messaged you asking for money, ignore it.
Problem: The fake account messaged me asking for money 'in an emergency'
Likely cause: Classic 'grandparent scam' — they pretend a real friend or grandchild is in trouble and needs money fast.
How to fix: Do not send money. Call the real person's phone number directly. Real emergencies don't get fixed by Facebook gift card requests, wire transfers to a stranger, or sending Bitcoin. If they pressure you, that's the scam — real friends and family understand if you call to verify.
Problem: Facebook didn't take action on my report
Likely cause: Facebook's report queue is huge; not every report is reviewed quickly.
How to fix: Even if Facebook doesn't remove it, blocking protects you personally. Tell your real friend to also report it from their account — multiple reports are more likely to be acted on.
Problem: I'm getting many fake requests every day
Likely cause: Your privacy settings allow 'public' or 'friends of friends' to send requests, plus your account may be on a scam list.
How to fix: Go to Settings → Privacy → 'Who can send you friend requests?' and change to 'Friends of friends'. This stops random strangers but lets legitimate mutual connections still find you.
Frequently asked questions
Why do I keep getting friend requests from my own friends?
Your friends' profiles are being cloned by scammers. The scammer copies your real friend's name and profile photo to create a fake new account, then sends you a friend request hoping you'll accept and assume your friend made a new account. The real friend's account is fine — but their public photos got stolen. After accepting, the scammer typically sends a 'help me, I'm in trouble' message to ask for money.
How do I tell a real friend request from a clone?
Five signs of a clone: (1) you're already friends with the person — Facebook would normally show 'You're already friends', (2) the new account joined Facebook recently, (3) the new account has very few or no posts, (4) the only photo is your friend's profile picture (no other photos, no friends visible), (5) the person hasn't told you about a 'new account' before sending the request. If even 2 of these are true, it's a clone.
Should I delete the fake friend request or report it?
Report it first, then block. Just deleting hides it from you but doesn't stop the scammer from cloning more friends. Reporting (especially from multiple people) increases the chance Facebook removes the fake account entirely. Reporting takes 30 extra seconds and protects others.
What is the 'cloned account' scam exactly?
Scammer copies a real Facebook user's name and profile photo to create a fake account, then sends friend requests to the real user's friends. After being accepted, scammer messages with urgent financial requests ('I'm stuck overseas, send Western Union'), or sends phishing links, or impersonates Facebook security. Highly targeted at seniors who trust the apparent friend connection.
Can I prevent my own profile from being cloned?
You can make it harder. Go to Settings → Privacy → 'Who can see your friends list?' set to 'Only Me'. Set 'Who can see your future posts?' to 'Friends'. Lock down your profile photo viewing if Facebook offers it in your region. Cloners need a public name+photo and a friends list to work — limiting visibility makes you a worse target.
If a 'friend' messages me from a new account asking for help, what should I do?
Call them directly on the phone you have for them. Do not respond to the Facebook message. Real emergencies are reachable by phone. If their phone is 'lost' or 'broken' according to the Facebook message, that's the scam — they want to keep the conversation in Facebook where they can lie. Always verify with a second channel.
Why doesn't Facebook automatically detect cloned accounts?
Facebook does delete millions of fake accounts, but the volume is enormous (thousands created per minute) and clones are designed to look real. Reports from real users (you and your friend) are how Facebook's algorithm learns. The more people who report a clone, the faster it's removed.
Is it safe to call a number a 'Facebook security' message gives me?
Absolutely not. Meta has zero phone support for personal accounts. Every phone number that appears in Facebook messages, posts, or search results claiming to be 'Facebook support' is a scam — almost always followed by remote-control software requests, gift card demands, or password theft. Real Facebook support is only at facebook.com/help.
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